Becoming Whole

By Rebecca Mays

Many of us have heard the maxim that “the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.”  There is a flow, a stream of connections in the natural world around us that informs our environment and our inner lives.  We as human beings are not separate from the ongoing flow in nature. In growing in our understanding of our connection with nature, we receive “ah-ha” moments of insight as we create our future through curiosity and deep listening.

Ilia Delio writes about this connection and how it organizes our search for wholeness as a community. ”Nature is like a choreographed ballet or a symphony. . . .Bees and ants, for example, are unable to survive in isolation, but in great numbers they act almost like the cells of a complex organism with a collective intelligence and capabilities for adaptation.”[1]

Our spiritual strivings through time as a human colony demonstrate a tacit dimension in flow with nature wherein new insights come in flashes through one person on behalf of the many. Just as nature is never at rest, the flow of our evolution is also creatively generative. Our choice is to open to this tacit dimension of our evolution and to choose not to act against it. The following vignettes are examples of persons whose evolving personhood experienced “ah-ha” moments of insight that transformed their choices of belief, behavior, and belonging.

In the eighteenth century, a Quaker woman began to receive new insights of Jesus/Yeshua through dreams. In a powerful dream/vision, she saw an androgynous figure she called Christ speaking of the glory of God “greater than even the Quakers in their first coming forth.”[2] She became more whole in understanding that even though the particular religious community in which she belonged held great meaning for her, she was being shown something expanding, moving, full of life that was still to come.  Mary Penington opened to what was revealed to her in a way that transformed her ministry and influence.

In the early twentieth century, a Quaker/Methodist woman was riding the Market Street tram in Philadelphia when the sight of two passengers captivated her God-loving attention.  She experienced a fresh insight for her that re-oriented her ministry in the Wesleyan holiness movement to reassure people of “universal salvation.”[3]  Hannah Whitall Smith’s perceptions deepened and expanded about how God was at work in the world.

In this twenty-first century, I have facilitated a leadership workshop for university-aged international students. The State Department sponsors them for five weeks in the U.S to learn about religious pluralism. Of differing religious traditions, they visit in religious communities previously unknown to them. A couple of their lived experiences demonstrate the “ah-ha” moments that expanded their horizons.

 A young Maronite Christian woman from Lebanon formed friendships with members of the Baha’I religious community. Her devotion in front of beautiful icons met the conviction in those friends who use no images to express their devotion. Respect for difference can be an act of toleration, but her experience went deeper. She described the “closeness” she felt with them that invited her to appreciate the differences.  She felt a new vision of what religion can be, an act of becoming more whole, more fully human.[4]

A young Muslim man from Iraq is studying to be a doctor.  His “ah-ha” was to learn that other traditions than is own Shi’a Islam also practice fasting to deepen a relationship with God. He planned during his next Ramadan fast, not only to reread the Qur’an, but also to add texts from other traditions that express devotion through differing fasting practices.[5]

Through time and with others, the moments of expansion, of becoming more whole, are born of curiosity and deep listening. We awaken to an appreciation for differences that might have otherwise kept us in our hunger for wholeness.  We want to move beyond toleration to a unity that differentiates with increased understanding of the connections among us and with nature.[6]

At the Center for Christogenesis, we want to birth a collective intelligence with benefit for individuals and groups. To that end, the Center has just launched a podcast series, “A Hunger for Wholeness” that addresses the connections between religion and science, between the sacred and the secular.  We respect the tacit dimension of experiment and wisdom such a connection engenders.  Please join us in listening to it:  place link

For discussion and dialogue, listeners are invited to join a Christopany group to study and to share experiences of “ah-ha” moments where curiosity and deep listening reveal new insights.  Please join as leader or member on the website for the Center for Christogenesis and click the tab for groups.  We look forward to expanding with you as we become a more whole earth community of plants, animals, and people.

                                                                                                  “On the Ridge”[7]

Poem by Mark Nepo, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller The Book of Awakening

We can grow by simply lis-

tening, the way the tree on

that ridge listens its branches

to the sky, the way blood

listens its flow to the site

of a wound, the way you

listen like a basin when

my head so full of grief

can’t look you in the eye.

We can listen our way out

of anger, if we let the heart

soften the wolf we keep in-

side.  We can last by listening

deeply, the way roots reach for

the next inch of earth, thy way

an old turtle listens all he hears

Into the pattern of his shell.

[1] Ilia Delio, The Unbearable Wholeness of Being: God, Evolution, and the Power of Love (Maryknoll, NY: Orbis Books), p. 32-33.

[2] Mary Garman, Judith Applegate, Margaret Benefiel, Dortha Meredith, eds., Hidden in Plain Sight: Quaker Women’s Writings 1650-1700 with foreword by Rosemary Radford Ruether, (Wallingford,PA: Pendle Hill Publications),  p.225.

[3] https://tentmaker.org/books/unselfishness-of-god.htm, Chapter 22 “The Third Epoch in My Religious Life.”

[4] Personal Interview, Summer, 2022

[5] Personal Interview, Summer, 2022

[6] David Landis Barnhill and Roger S. Gottlieb, eds., Deep Ecology and World Religions: New Essays on Sacred Ground (Albany, NY: State University of New York Press, 2001), p. 20.

[7] Mark Nepo, Reduced to Joy (Berkely, CA: Viva Editions, 2013), p. 100.